You can take someone off of your Hot List or any custom list that you've created. Here's how:
- Go to your Hot List or custom list and click either the Hot List icon under the member photo OR the Move link on the profile of the member you want to remove
- Click Unlist in the drop-down menu
For your convenience, members will remain in Viewed, Emailed, IM'd and Flirt lists so that you have a record.